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To close the gap, you have to change the medium of the message.

Convert your abstract "vibes" into concrete words.

Sometimes the "void" of not being understood can be partially filled by validating yourself. You don't always need a witness to make your feelings real. Summary Table: Closing the Gap you_dont_understand_me

If you’ve tried to be clear and the "You don't understand me" feeling persists, the issue might be on their end:

"You never listen" puts people on the defensive. To close the gap, you have to change

Expecting someone to "just know" what you need is a setup for disappointment. Even the people who love you most cannot read your mind. 3. How to Make Yourself Understood

If you frequently feel misunderstood, take a moment to look at your "transmission" style: You don't always need a witness to make your feelings real

One person often wants to be "fixed" (logic), while the other just wants to be "felt" (emotion).