“Grief is not a wave. It's a riptide. Unseen. Unannounced. Cruel in its timing... In these moments, when you feel the currents are too strong to resist, allow yourself the freedom to relax and let it take you.” Facebook · Grief Speaks · 1 year ago
Vance Joy has described the "riptide" as a metaphor for being suddenly pulled into a relationship or a new lifestyle without fully thinking it through—much like a swimmer caught in an actual ocean current. Riptide
The Riptide Mentality, Lesser Goals, & More | The Curiosity Chronicle “Grief is not a wave
: The title was also inspired by a motel called "Riptide" where Vance Joy stayed with his family as a child. The "Riptide" Mentality Unannounced
Beyond the music, "riptide" is often used as a metaphor for dealing with intense external forces or emotional distress.
: Some describe grief not as a wave that passes, but as a riptide—unseen and cruel, pulling you under when you least expect it.
: This idiom suggests someone who is delicate, refined, or being kept "safe" and secluded from the world.