Neglect, Shame, And... — Raising Myself: A Memoir Of

Engel recounts severe hardships, including physical and emotional neglect, being sexually abused at ages four and nine, and being raped at twelve.

The memoir details Engel’s experience growing up with a neglectful and narcissistic mother, effectively being on her own from the age of four. Key themes include: Raising Myself: A Memoir of Neglect, Shame, and...

A central focus is how early neglect and abuse created deep-seated shame, making her feel "unlovable and rotten inside". Engel recounts severe hardships