Security protocols from organizations like Yale University Emergency Management emphasize tactical behavioral adjustments to minimize harm:
: Try to humanize yourself to captors; they are less likely to harm someone they respect. Hostage
The psychological toll is extensive and often lasts long after the physical release: : "Listening is the cheapest, yet most effective
: Do not speak unless spoken to and avoid making pleas on your own behalf. If forced to present demands to authorities, clarify they are from the captors. : Do not run
: "Listening is the cheapest, yet most effective concession we can make". This involves reflective listening , mirroring , and labeling emotions to build trust.
: Negotiators focus on magnifying positive emotions and understanding the counterpart's rationale, rather than engaging in power struggles.
: Do not run. Drop to the floor, cross your arms, and obey all instructions. Tense rescuers may interpret sudden moves as threats. Negotiation Techniques