Despite its upbeat, danceable tempo typical of Romanian "muzică etno," the lyrics convey a sense of betrayal and the moral dilemma of "falling into heavy sin" ( "m-ai împins în păcatul greu" ). Musical Style Genre: Ethno-Pop / Party Music (Muzică de petrecere).
The central theme is the disbelief and pain of discovering that a partner is giving the same affection to two different people simultaneously. Cum de poti iubi la fel - Romy si Dana de Vis
The chorus poses the rhetorical and stinging question: "Cum de poți iubi așa, și pe mine și pe ea? / Cum de poți iubi la fel, și pe mine și pe el?" (How can you love like this, both me and her? / How can you love the same, both me and him?) Despite its upbeat, danceable tempo typical of Romanian
The track often features accordion-heavy arrangements and electronic beats designed for weddings and celebrations. A popular 2024 Remix has also kept the song relevant for modern audiences. The chorus poses the rhetorical and stinging question:
The chemistry between Romy’s traditional male vocal style and Dana de Vis’s melodic delivery creates a narrative tension that mirrors a real-life argument between lovers. Cultural Impact
"Cum de poți iubi la fel" is a popular ethno-party song performed by and Dana de Vis . Released as part of their collaboration on the RomixStudio label, the track has become a staple in the Romanian party music scene, often featuring in "muzică de petrecere" and "chef" playlists. Song Overview & Themes
The song explores the classic emotional conflict of infidelity and divided affection. It is structured as a dialogue between two partners, blending traditional ethno rhythms with modern production.