Being Left — Alone.mp4
: A breakdown by the Calm Blog offers 13 practical tips for embracing solitude, such as setting personal goals and practicing mindfulness to shift from "feeling lonely" to "being content alone."
If you are interested in the psychological and societal side of "being left alone," these resources provide deeper academic and practical insights:
You can read the full text and find the embedded video on Ankit Shah's official site . being left alone.mp4
: He discusses how we often derive our sense of purpose from external "context"—like having people laugh at our jokes or seeing friends in person. Without it, we risk losing our sense of self.
: The article examines why being alone feels scary. We often use social media as a "virtual happy hour" to avoid the discomfort of our own thoughts. : A breakdown by the Calm Blog offers
In this piece, Ankit Shah argues that in a world of constant digital hyper-connectivity, we have lost the ability to simply "be" with ourselves. He explores several key themes:
: Research published on PMC suggests that how we think about being alone (whether we view it as a choice or a rejection) dictates whether it feels like a "positive solitude" or "negative loneliness." : The article examines why being alone feels scary
: An article from Nature details a 21-day study showing that while solitude can increase feelings of loneliness, it significantly boosts "autonomy satisfaction"—the feeling of being free from external pressure.

